Hey all. New to Kudos and to this forum. First life sim I’ve played and I absolutely love it. Thank-Q!
My problem is: I can’t get anyone to socialize. The only answer to invites I “send” is something about “…the last time we did that, I had a bad time.” No one will accept an invitation to go out with me anywhere, not even indirect friends. Finally got a relationship started with one of my original girl friends and even she won’t go out with me. I bathe regularly and keep the house clean but still no deal. The opnly reason I can think of is that my people skills aren’t very high but I seem to have no way to build them in the current situation. Any ideas on what’s wrong with me?
ok, make sure you invite people to things they like doing
Make sure your char is not really unhappy when you invite people also your charisma shouldn’t be in the depths of despair - friends don’t like socializing with doom and gloom
Try and select events that a number of people can attend - that way they might at least enjoy each others company if they don’t particularly like you
Or do what I sometimes do - p*ss them all off by just attending classes and doing your own solo advancement, then wait for new friends to come along through encounters at work/walking/jogging/shopping etc.