It’s very, very annoying that the ONLY event my character’s friends invite her to do is wine and cheese parties. So my character ends up drunk all the time. Why is it not different activities??
Ok, first try inviting people to other things yourself.
Second, if all or most of your friends have “drinking” etc in their interests, and you want to do something else than find new friends. Take a walk around the park, or try to invite your “friend’s freiends” and see what you come up with.
I’m guessing most of your character’s friends have alcohol and wine & cheese evenings as their interests. The friends who are quite pretentious (the ones who are smart, well paid, cultured, etc) will always want to do those types of activities and will look down their noses at other things. It might be time to find new friends.